Members looking for sex in Bronx, NY

I am 27 live in the bronx. I am looking for a man who knows how to serve a women I am open to teaching if needed but do not tolerate misbehaving. This will be a relationship one where the understanding is that I am married. I can be a very kind and gentle mistress however I know when a swift hand is needed. I am not too in to bondage or strapon play. I also want a man not one who wants to be a woman or any sissy stuff. As long as tou do as you are told this will work out just fine.