I am very D/s oriented. I really get into watching and listening to the reactions of the submissive I am controlling and manipulating. The more I know you and as your trust deepens, the further I can take you "...down the road less traveled..". That is why my preference is to find someone that will meet my needs and I meet his. Then we can see how far we can travel on that overgrown road. It's also why I'm not interested in one time or occasional play partners. It's just not satisfying for me.
I am very perceptive but not always a mind reader. So, I expect you will trust me enough to express your yearnings, desires, fears, disappointments, joys, hopes, and dreams in all aspects of your life. This is the key and what brings me the most joy. I am a caring but firm Domme. I have high expectations and will take the time to train you exactly as the sub I'd like you to be.
I am not interested in a weak or wimpy sub. I expect you to be strong and confident (not arrogant!) outside of the bedroom. With that said, I do enjoy begging and whining at times when the circumstances cause it. I am not interested in poly. I'm monogamous and my goal is to find my lifetime partner, or at least a long term relationship, in and out of the bedroom.
I started BDSM and D/s in the early 80s and my interests and types of play have varied greatly over the years. I no longer do traditional edge play. These days I lean towards discipline, spankings, crops, floggings, play & strapons (love to introduce you), and getting interested again in bondage. The actual type of play is not as important as the dynamic between us. My mood and that dynamic at the time will be the factors in deciding how the D/s dynamic will be expressed at that moment. So many possibilities....
My interests outside of play include movies, theatre, reading, concerts, wine tasting, swimming, and board games.
There is more...much more....introduce yourself and ask. And please don't call me Ma'am or Mistress. I detest both of those addresses.