Members looking for sex in Vallejo California, USA

I am looking for a Sir not a Sadist. Enjoy being spanked or similar if I am defiant but NO serious pain that you would get off on. I want to be controlled and objectified. I am NOT a dominatrix as many of you seem to think. I am a submissive.

So I am self-employed and fairly outspoken at times should the need arise. With you, I want to have to ask permission to speak.