I'm Vince and Imma Wisconsinite... yes Imma yankee!
Mmmkay... So yeah... Everybody's been hurt. Everybody's been cheated on. Everybody's knows what it's like to feel heartache and pain... loneliness and sorrow. October 22nd 2015 I lost my fiance, who I took care of, to complications of an extremely aggressive form of Leukemia(AML). So I know loss.
But let's move past all that for a second... drop all the baggage and start fresh! YES... it is very scary to wear your heart on your sleeve and not have "walls" and "masks" to protect yourself... but I can promise I'm a lil different. First off... I don't chase after women like most men... I don't see the point. I think ppl have lost touch on what they should be basing their relationships on! Two people should be together because they both want to be with each other... not because one person sends more messages then another. I will show interest where interest is returned. If you ask me to contact you later... I will. If you tell me you'll "hit me up later"... and never do... I'll assume you no longer wish to talk and won't bother you. Too easy! I'm totally not the stalker type. More like the opposite.
Because I see things a lil different than others... I'm looking for someone a lil different too. As a Christian, faith is important to me! I am incredibly silly... and have a very broad range in humor... from the goofy to the dark and twisted. I LOVE to make others laugh!! It's almost therapeutic for me. That being said... a woman that can make me laugh is sexy!! Yes... it's not all about looks for me! Although being cute is a definite plus... personality... sense of humor... and a quick witted and sharp mind adds all that much more to what I find attractive. I am 100 disease free and expect the same... or at very least be straight with me up front and we'll see. And let's not have any delusions about it ladies... a "cold sore" IS herpes!!
!!! I DO NOT PLAY GAMES !!! I repeat... !!! I DO NOT PLAY GAMES !!! A couple of people from here have found that out quick... screw me around and I'll walk away quick, fast and in a hurry!! Keep any idiotic tendencies away from any type of relationship we might have... be it friendship or more. More than likely... the response you're trying to envoke from me will leave you sorely wanting.
And hey... I don't mind a lil playful jealousy now and then... I even find it cute... but I will not let it dominate any said type relationship.
Oh... and I absolutely can not stand a woman who talks about "all she wants in a man"... but cannot give back the same thing she's expecting. That immediately tells me there's immaturity and selfishness in one's thought process. If you're not gonna put 100 into anything you're doing... how can you possibly hope to get 100 back!?
** Update: It's "Reak Talk" time!!!
If I offer you a simple and totally respectful... compliment... on a pic you have posted... it doesn't mean I wanna throw your back out!
Not all men are pigs... just like not all women are crazy... right?!
If you couldn't tell... I'm really honest and don't have patience for "bull" anymore...
Ok... a lil about me. I got outta the Army as a Combat Medic/Army Nurse due to an injury that left me with a lil nerve damage in my back. I try not to let it slow me down too much... but I won't pretend I can do all the things I used to do. I'm an incredibly affectionate and playful individual. I can carry on a decent conversation about current events and interests... or can be "naughty" if needed....... again... just being honest. Kids and pets love me because I have a kind spirit and am gentle in nature. I'm a fan of shows like South Park and Tosh.0... and love to make fun of commercials! :-/ I'm a music junkie and listen to just about everything... but I am an 80's child!! I'm a mixture of black/white with just a pinch of Native Indian... so I can almost be as racist as I want to get outta jury duty!! ;-) I'll be the coolest Halfrican-American you'll ever meet... or at least the most unique... or your money back! I'm a true Libra...by almost any definition of the horoscope... and as we all know... Libras rock!!! We are just born awesome... and awesome sauce flows through our veins!! We have no control over it so don't get mad at us about it. Just sit back... relax... and enjoy our time together!! ;-)
If you even read this far... you've seen how honest I can be. If you wanna know how open I am... ask me something!!