Totally up for fun. I do 'put out' on a first date, but realise that a lot of women eschew this - although they rarely hold back on the wining and especially the dining. I'm great NSA material, not so handsome that you'll fall head over (very high) heels, but with all the attributes, athleticism, staying power and 'bedroom smarts' to make an encounter memorable for all the right reasons.
However, it doesn't just have to be 'in the bedroom'. A bit of naughtiness in public adds a sexy element of risk don't you think?
I do prefer women who can string a sentence together, and who can spell (sence of humour- what's all that about?).
Maybe for that reason, around my age or older usually hits the spot - more to talk about. However, I am not proscriptive on this, it is just a number, after all.
Other preferences? Love dangerous curves, but above all, an attitude that: 'If you've got it, flaunt it.'
Ideally, when we meet you will be wearing stockings, preferably with suspenders, your tightest skirt, your highest heels. Knickers are optional, but why not arrive commando feeling wicked and wanton? You will enjoy it more.
I have seen from diaries, profiles etc. that some of you don't like cock shots - but on the other hand some of you love them. Naturally I'm more interested in the latter category - no room for prudes I'm afraid. - But here's a question: why do some of you ladies post very explicit pics of yourselves but complain about the pics we men post?
One thing that I would mention is, that while I am no expert in the subject of identifying guys by their equipment, it does look to me as though the same guy has been having fun with at least three of you.
On this subject, it is interesting that some ladies who have mailed me that my photo is 'disgusting' and then blocked me before I could reply, do keep coming back for another look.
In similar vein, there are also plenty of ladies on here who have no 'photos on show but demand a male face pic before they will even converse. - Short sentence: second word is 'off' ladies - and by the way, if this is your only 'turn on' it suggests to me that you may be a bit more than lacking in the foreplay department.
Profiles that have proscriptive instructions or demands (no winks, must be within a certain geographical radius etc.) or threats to block transgressors, may well be ignored in a cavalier fashion. Block away! I'll take the consequences. I'm not on 'Date a Domme' so I don't do 'instructions'.
Please bear in mind that no acts are 'compulsory' - they should be requested - or not - unless the requirement is for a very bad boy in the bedroom to take the lead in all things.
In my experience there is a certain percentage of women on here who haven't had sex for quite some time. They firmly believe they are sexy, and enjoy sex, and are missing out. What they should be doing is examining WHY they haven't had sex for a long time. Perhaps the actuality is that they love thinking about it, but are alarmed by the imminent possibility of it? You tell me!
My view, nay advice, is this. If you have the choice to have sex, or not have sex, it is sensible to have sex.
The opportunity to not have it will still be there tomorrow.
Carpe diem girls!
I don't feel as though I've many fantasies left to explore, so we can concentrate on yours, and if you have an ambition to really fuck like a porn star, and in positions you might not imagine, you are in luck!
Hm, thinking about it though - larger than average boobs very welcome.
No apologies if the above seems a bit harsh - I've been reading a lot of your profiles and speak as I find.
Over to you ladies - don't be shy.
FAQs
Is it? - No, it is not my face on the profile pic.
Why choose that pic? - Only to illustrate that I am not desperate, and that some practices that men who watch far too much porn have firmly on their 'to do lists' don't appear in my 'to do' column - mainly because I don't have one.