Time for a re-write! I am not looking for a shag! I am not looking for just sex!
I am looking for an alpha guy who knows what he likes in a lady and wants to wine and dine her, spend time with her before handing her control in the bedroom!
If that is you then message me!
If you don't have a face pic then I'm not going to bother with you, we all know attraction is key for both a date and more so lets not kid ourselves its not! I know that not all men will be attracted to me as I am not attracted to all men, but I am fed up with looking at cocks so please put up a picture of yourself that would mean I would reconise you if we meet in a bar! I am also fed up with lines like I can't put up my face picture because of my job, or I run my own business, its a dating site, if you are on here then you are looking to date and your colleagues or customers shouldn't judge you for that, or have you got something to hide? The other common one is I'll email it or text it if you can't put your picture on here why will i give you my email address or my phone number!
Just one more thing, I'm not looking for my soul mate! I don't think he is on here , but if he is great, however if I take the time to mail you, please if you are not interested just click the not intested button, its only good manners after all!
Having had loads of mails which is very flattering I will add that I am looking for non smoking unattached guys! No offence to you if you fall outside of this but I don't smoke and I won't hurt someone else! I have also set my filters for the age group I am looking for, filters are set between 30 to 47 (slightly outside age group which is really 35 to 45) and within 100 miles of me, and to be honest I wouldn't cope with all the mails! I know that is lovely but if you know what you want then its much easier to be honest! Also if I send you a not interested message it means I have read your profile and you are not for me, please respect that, I do if I am sent them!
So if you appreciate good conversation, an intelligent mind and great company then lets have dinner and see if the chemistry is there, but please no lies to get yourself laid, just be honest!
Having been on the site for a few months now, I have found that a lot of guys are just looking for a shag, I'm not I want a little bit more than that! I'm not looking to change my life but I value myself a lot more than to have someone shag me and go; might as well put a red light in the window! So I am looking for something casual but to actually spend time, ie dinner, drinks, cinema or theatre before having great sex! I'm not looking to move in with someone or see someone 4 or 5 times a week!