My life is pretty hectic, although I'm making changes where I can, and I'm a single parent of 3 wonderful kids. So regardless of whether we become involved, playmates, friends or just online acquaintances, they and my time with them will always be my 1st priority.
Family, work, relationships and vanilla life come first, kink second.
However having said that, the need for D/s is and hopefully will always be a strong and deep seated one.
I'm not looking for hook ups and kinky sex. I am looking for new experiences, someone to explore things with, someone to lead me and push me beyond what I'm comfortable with.
As a woman, I'm quiet, shy, protective, friendly, stubborn, honest, cheeky and loving but find it hard letting people close.
As a submissive my experience is still limited but my need to please and serve is strong. I'm a sub, a babygirl, a cum slut, a slave, and at times a masochist. But all that takes trust and effort. Its a state of being not a role turned on and off.
I have no interest in topping anyone so please male subs/ switches that will not change.