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Totally new to this online dating... thing.
Looking for a more Subby/Semi-Slave-ish lady, who looks good in leather... lol... ( I am half kidding ladies... lol) ... with a little Kink to her.
Dommes, need not apply... we would clash to much.
Also only really interested in ladies/girls 18-37-ish... Sorry, ladies older than me ... simply do not do anything for me...
As you can tell, i have what some would class as a Strange Sense of Humour... that can take a little getting used to... but I am nervous about doing this..
So please bear with me...
I have been out of the Dating Pool for so long... I am lost to tell you the truth... I have never quite caught the knack of "Chatting up"... so this may prove to be a little more challenging for me... than for the guys who find it easy... but I must say that I have a more Dominant charactor... always have had, even before I knew what it meant... which I guess is abit of a contradiction... A (ex) Master... that is Shy... I suppose that my Master Role ... is an Alter-Ego... another part of me... that I switch "on and off"...
Married for 7 years, but was with my Wife/partner for 17...
This was my 2nd marriage...
Very messy Divorce... which is currently in its final death throws... Discovered she was and is cheating on me with a Mutual friend. Turned very vindictive when I wouldn't accept her blatantly stupid and inflamitory offers ... or play her "games" to get me out of the house... this included calling the Police... when I wouldnt give her what she wanted, and leave.
Looking to start afresh.
New life, with a new start... hopefully with somebody new too. I am no longer a Practicing Master, having resolved myself that I was not going to be what I wished to be... atleast with the woman I had married... and let that side of me hide again. But now that/she is no longer an issue...
Stopped listening to people say I can't do it... and started listening to myself say I can. I don't remember when that became the case... that I started to believe the other people when they put me down... nice friends huh? ... but... no more...
Also currently sporting a full beard, just because I now can.
Not quite ZZ Top... but heading for Brian Blessed... lol.
May change styles... when it has matured a little more... It currently looks like I am eatting a Hampster... lol... I like the "Devil" or "Vandyke" style... or I may remove compleately... if and when I get fed up of eatting it... not sure yet...
I want to date... and have a relationship... but..I have been seriously hurt by my soon-to-be Ex-wife's vindictivness, deceit and lies, like I said earlier, so letting someone else in, and trusting people again may take some time... especially with my returned "mind-set". Finding others out there that share my... philosiphy.. in life is hard enough... I want to take things slowly... Start off as friends, get to know one another... develop from there...then... who knows where we may end up...
I have a certain kind of girl in my minds eye... but I am a fan of the female form, no matter what size... I look for what is inside... heart and mind... not the superficial body shape.. (ok, not JUST the superficial... lol). I admit I like a lady with a figure... I suppose I could be classed as a "Breast and Ass guy"... but in all honesty, looks are secondary... a sense of humour, a heart and a slightly warped/kinky/dirty mind are more important to me... but if you do happen to look good as well... that is a bonus... and I am not going to complain... lol
I am a Gentle giant, and kind of shy... but once I am "used to the situation" I tend to relax lighten up, and come out of my shell.
Like to listen and engage with people I find interesting... and like people who are straight with me... as I always am with them.
I don't own a car, but I have 1000cc Motorbike... which is a large V-Twin Tourer, designed to pound out the miles with ease.
That is also why I say about a girl who looks good in Leather... for the safety gear..amongst other things... Jacket, Leather Jeans, Gloves and a Lid. See? I was not JUST being perverse... lol. Buffalo Camp, in Sturgis SD is a place I would love to go to each year... but have yet to do it... also go coast-to-coast on a Harley in the States.
But... if you are to be my pillion... or my "Biker Babe/Bitch" then you HAVE to dress the part... lol
I am also a fan of ladies in high-heels, or heeled-boots... nothing particularly kinky or perverse meant by that... I just like ladies in heels or boots. I think it makes them look so damn good. :-) A lady can never go wrong in figure-hugging clothes... and a pair of High Heels, or Heeled Boots in my mind... Possibly a "Fall-out" (no pun intended) from my liking of Ladies with... "Pleasing Assets" lol
I am Diabetic (type 2)... controlled by
Meds and Diet... so I do not tend to get to drink very much, also because I Drive trucks for a living.
My brain is a vault of useless knowledge... I just seem to remember it for some reason... lol.. so I used to be good at Pub Quizzes... lol... and it can turn the most innocent comment into the dirtiest innuendo... lol
I like history, documentaries, my tastes in music and films etc are very wide and eclectic...
Don't have many friends, but the ones I do have are REAL friends. Once you are my friend, I am very loyal. I will stand and fight beside you in all-out war...
Like my job as a HGV driver/trucker... have tickets and experience to drive almost anything, including Dangerous Goods.... anything apart from Explosives, and Radiation. you name it... I have most likely hauled it somewhere...
I am a True Cornishman by birth, and DAMN proud of it... born in Truro, and grew up in Penzance... Yes, that makes me A Pixie, or a Pirate... lol... (No, I am NOT English... I am Cornish... lol)
I live in Worthing.. and will come to meet you inside a kind of 1 hour running time for me on the Bike...
That gives the rough Geographical perimeter of Eastbourne to Portsmouth... and Worthing to M25-ish..
I must say... that I will push the perimeter out a little bit further, if it is worth my while, and we are likely to click.
Please understand, this does NOT mean I am only after one thing ladies... a quick one night stand... far from it... I am simply not like that... it is simply not in may "make up"... it means I am willing to go that bit further.. to meet someone I like.
:-)
... who knows where it may lead... I am willing to take the gamble... 8-)