Athletic and hungry for intimacy...
I also need to be attracted to those I have sex with. And sorry guys that means fit. You don't have to be ripped but I take care of myself, am reasonably fit and so why would I want anyone who wasn't any of those things...
You also need to be single (and that means not having a girlfriend).
Don't get me wrong - I've been in unhappy, sexless relationships so i know its tough. But you can't have your cake and eat it too - and I won't be anyone's dirty little secret.
Because there are far fewer women on here than men, I get bombarded by emails every time I come online so please be patient with me. The site also sends out introductory spam purporting to be from me - it isn't.
I don't talk dirty.
I don't do phone sex or webcam stuff.
If you bombard me with emails asking for my personal details or asking to hook up without even having exchanged face pics, you will be ignored.
Ok so here are my "rules of engagement":
If we get chatting on this site and like each other then it makes sense to exchange emails and -specifically - face pics. I need to be attracted to anyone I have sex with and its equally important to me that you like my face as well as my body (I know some guys don't care about that but hey, call me old-fashioned). If we still like each other at that point then arranging to meet is also sensible. You should not assume that we will have sex the first time we meet. There has to be chemistry. If there is, then sex may well be involved but both of us need to be feel able to walk away no hard feelings if there isn't chemistry.
I'm sorry if these rules don't suit but thanks for taking the trouble to read them x