Im not looking for a girl/boy friend relationship, im not a sub and im not looking for a dom im just looking for a man who is into pleasure and bondage (giving, receiving or both), the bondage is optional if you are not into it thats not a problem, i am not into the BDSM scene just looking for a like minded friend with benefits to have regular fun with.
please do not start off your messages to me asking to meet me we need to chat first, get to know each other before we meet, im sure you have heard of the dangers of meeting strangers over the internet, ideally im looking for a man who is clothes size XL or bigger thats my type of man a well rounded man is a turn on a six pack is a turn off, he must live local to Southampton has i cannot travel or accommodate, im only looking for a man who is close to my own age (40-50). I am looking for a friend with benefits abit more than a fuck buddy, it would be nice to have a new friend in my life but we also have mutual, sexual fun as well, so if you are looking for the same please send me a message
Thank you.