The bottom line: I get pleasure by giving pleasure, so whether you are kinky or straight, I will play along - anything goes, at least once. I am imaginative and I listen. I have learned new knots and new tricks which seems to be useful skills on here. I simply love outdoor sex and nearly getting caught. I love sex with the eyes across a small gap with others around. Head fucks are the best. I am very keen on the female orgasm, always have been. Body type and age don't bother me, cleanliness and an open mind are more important. Everyone has it in them to let go and get what they need, whatever that may be. I am broadminded and interested enough to help.
I continue to enjoy the journey through this labyrinth of sites we all seem to be included on. In any particular week I get invited to a marital affair (nice), winked at by a local, fat or granny slag (I have difficulty with this - that is not a good word), cc'd by a kinky contact (possible), propositioned by a hot housewife (better still) and speculated on by a tvgirl (w t f?). I have been expertly reeled in by an adult fish. That was worth the subscription. Oh yes. I didn't believe it would, but it works, even if it does use a lot of bandwidth and make my fingering finger tired. (I am a shite typist),
One of the best things about these sites is that you can be direct and outrageous in conversation, and find fun and get genuine smiles from it. In contrast to the majority view about cock pictures, rude talk seems to be acceptable, often necessary. I get many unbelievably racy conversations on here, and I thank you all, I rejoice in it. It also opened the door to glory days. Some would say filthy, I say its art.
Conversation doesn't have to progess into sex. Every exchange has value and I enjoy it all, even the mad and negative one-liners. I find it helps to view it all as entertainment and then let it move into the meaningful of its own accord if it gets to the second page.
'It take all sorts to make a world' as they say, and you certainly find them on here. There are people who are needy and seriously looking to achieve something - if they are on the same site as me I would suggest they find another. There are people who are bitter, mistrustful, angry. Why are they here? We all of us have situations to feel hard done by about, baggage to throw off, what is the point of airing this here, at a meeting point? Intolerance and agendas are so unattractive.
Happily, there are also plenty of well adjusted individuals to engage with, just as in life. Normal people, glass half full, escaping to who knows what for a while, following the fates. To all of those I say welcome, if you want to swap bytes I look forward to it.
Update: October 13. What a summer! I set out to find out some things and could not have believed or hoped for what transpired. My faith in life is restored. I have met lots of lovely women, enjoyed them, and been happy to share the joy to a lesser or greater extent with many of them. My diary will give you the subtext, I had just the time of my life, aided and abbeted by one brilliant soul in particular. Time to smile and move on now. New diamonds to shine.
If you have read this, you will probably see me in your inbox. :)