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Confident, chatty, slim 40 yr old brunette seeks male sub.

I am a short, slim, professional, attractive, confident, chatty brunette. I am 40yrs old, like to keep fit and look after myself.  I am seeking a sub male to play with,  age 25 -49 ish.   In terms of my search, our first meet would be in a nice bar, and require a detailed discussion, so that I can fully understand you.  Anyone can bark orders - a true D/s relationship has a much deeper level of understanding and connection.   I am looking for someone discreet. I am very open to exploring. No interest in sex outdoors. Mutual respect and privacy are extremely important to me. Hoping to find someone for regular meets. I'm open minded and non judgmental. I do not want the lifestyle 24/7, only in the bedroom, behind closed doors.