Looking for some passion, fun, affection, bit of romance but not after a relationship. Have been with 1 man for the last 15 years but he had an affair, so that also means I'm not very experienced and I don't want all of the pressure of another relationship yet. I still live with him because I can't afford to move out but there hasn't been any kind of intimacy for a year. I'd like someone around my age, I usually look at a couple of years older than myself. Don't consider myself attractive or pretty and being overweight makes me very low in confidence. Not into anything rough or anal and I don't swallow. I'm also not into phone or video sex and watching a man wank himself off isn't attractive to me. Hope I'm not too boring to be on here! I joined on the affair site for nsa