Hi, my name is Valerie but my friends call me Val. I am a fair haired slim, petite widow. I'm told by my friends I look and act younger than I am. I don't think my photos are particularly flattering but can provide more if necessary. I am retired and live each day as it comes. I'm not particularly "sporty" but keep fit by doing a lot of walking and belong to a walking group. I am interested in history and enjoy visiting historic houses and gardens and have become a volunteer tour guide in two historic houses near where I live. I also enjoy going to the theatre and concerts plus days out and holidays at home and abroad. I am an outgoing sort of person and enjoy meeting new people but can be a good listener when necessary. I am looking for friendship and companionship initially but can be romantic,caring and loving with the right partner. I would like to meet someone who knows how to treat a lady, is honest from the word "go" and has a good sense of humour as laughter is the best medicine in today's difficult times. I believe its personality that counts not how a person looks. I would be very happy to hear from anyone who would like to know more about me or would like to talk on the phone or meet up as its quite difficult to really get to know someone by chatting on line for a long time.