I'm not looking for a husband or a live-in lover, nor am I looking for "NSA fun" (which implies sex without any attachment or commitment). What I would like to find is more of a companion to get together with on an exclusive basis - someone who I can consider to be "my guy", but without living in each other's pockets as we each lead separate lives. Someone with whom to enjoy day trips or weekends away at the seaside or countryside, visiting places of interest, spending the evenings eating out or staying in with a takeaway, watching DVDs chatting with some ambient background music.
I'm only interested in men around my own age or slightly younger (50+), and only single/divorced/widowed. I don't want to get involved with any men who are married or in another relationship. I do have a penchant for men who are pubically smooth (or at least closely trimmed), because I hate pubic hair.
I might not find what I want on this site, but in the meantime I'm happy to communicate with the friends I've made on here, and if somebody does stand out in the crowd then I'd be happy to consider meeting for a coffee. I should add that I've been a Member here on and off for a few years and have reached zero tolerance for time-wasters. So many guys make out they're interested in a casual meeting but then appear to get cold feet when it comes to actually making a date, and then they disappear off the face of the earth.
If you feel you would like to contact me please have something more interesting to say than "Hi, how's you?", or "Hi, care to chat?", and please have a photo and complete your profile saying something about yourself.