starting a divorce, have been married 17 years this March. Have not lived as husband and wife for over 8 years. If you are looking for a petite woman, I am not her, I am a BBW due to heath issues which are being addressed and I hope to have that fixed soon. OH FYI - I don't drive so you will have to come to me and also, you, I repeat you, have to get a hotel room. Let me make something perfectly clear, I am not here to waste time sending messages upon messages back and forth. If you can't set a time and date to meet and stick to it, then don't bother. I have waited over 8 years to meet someone to make me feel special and I will not settle for WHAT I WANT, yes if that makes me self-centred then so be it. I have put myself on the back burner for way to long.