Please note I'm 45, not 44!
Basics...
- NO PHOTO = NO REPLY.
- No characteristics completed = No reply.
- Please do not contact me if you're married or already involved, I'm not interested.
- Age - plus or minus 5 years of me. Ish.
- Caucasian only please... we all have preferences!
- Not too far away, max 1hr... I don't want to be driving for hours!
Please note I have filters set on age and distance ... and don't bother sending me the "your profile looks great but I'd like to see more photos before we start chatting" thing, that ain't happening!
I'm NOT looking for NSA, FWB or ONS so if you're typing with one hand because you're holding your brains in the other then please look elsewhere!
I'm looking for exclusive, permanent, long-term and fun... just one man; someone who wants to wake up with me as well as go to bed with me... I want chemistry, heat, tangible electricity, that elusive click-factor, immense passion, talking til dawn, 2-hrs sleep, intimacy that starts with the brain, contact during the day... someone brave, honest and loving
Me? ... quiet but fiery, well-behaved but naughty, calm but passionate, easy-going but difficult, intelligent but trusting to the point of occasional stupidity, sincere, honest, thoughtful, sensitive, open-minded, playful & good-humoured ... mostly! I'm initially cautious until I'm comfortable with you and I'm reactive and responsive but without being a doormat - I'll go with the flow until I reach my limits. I can come across as cool and shy on first dates; this is partly due to me being reactive but also it takes me a little while to be comfortable with new people - so please be patient; I just need unlocking. I do have a permanently busy mind which can go into overdrive but I'm more than capable of telling myself to stfu and happy to be told to when needs be!
You will be ... open-minded, intelligent, tall, challenging, confident and dominant without being arrogant, well-built, honest, patient, literate, well-balanced and mostly comfortable with themselves whilst not being perfect, sensual & passionate, discrete rather than discreet, quirky and with an edge. Well, if you don't ask...! :-)
There has to be a spark, some chemistry, a click factor - doesn't there - and so something needs to catch my attention with you and, with attraction being a fickle thing and chemistry so irritatingly undefinable, I never know what it is til I see it. So if I don't reply its because I've not been inspired to - sorry.
Most importantly for me is that you will be consistent, able to maintain banter and keep in touch. I can't switch off and on and want someone who can put the effort in to show interest and maintain contact - and I don't mean in a needy or attention-seeking way. You will understands that the best intimacy starts with the brain; you need to keep my mind engaged if you want my body to respond and its only in this kind of relationship that I can "let go" and push boundaries - you really won't get the best out of me if you don't put some effort in - and if you don't put any effort in I'll assume you're not interested!
You will be the man who makes me look twice and then stop looking at anyone else...
No wind-ups, mind-games, players or serial multi-daters please; I really don't have the time.
Please put my name in your email to me so that I know it's not an ice-breaker and I know you've bothered to read this far.
Enjoy!