Members looking for sex in Dublin City, Dublin

I am in a marriage without much physical expression of love for years - mainly due to my poor wife suffering long term illness. It must be made clear from the onset that I will not let her down or abandon her.
But, God, I so miss craic.and cuddles and real slow intimate petting - would love a discreet affair with a cuddly mature woman - perhaps somebody in a similar situation as myself - seeking a special friendship outside the home and re-kindling the sparks.
No hurry with meeting up or getting physical - just online chat and jokes for starters. ...... then ........ who knows?