PART 1
As a qualified physician of Alternative Medicine Ive been asked by many people Given your knowledge of anatomy what in your opinion is the anatomical criterion for a sexy woman? In a single word I answer Balance.
The bodys erogenous zones need to harmonise with each other. If theres over development of one region at the expense of another the effect is lopsided and skewed.
Now the following is just a personal view. I dont envisage any woman would have all the characteristics mentioned below. She need have only a few but if they are attractively displayed she can become a stunner. For me attractive display means that she portrays herself as classy, sophisticated, chic, refined, an elegant mature woman with poise and composure. All these traits suggest an element of mystery, inscrutability, subtlety, secretness, and of lots more to come. In other words there is tease. I love an effective tease by a well practiced and artful woman. Its a challenge of its own.
First of all the woman has to catch ones eye. For this she needs to stand out from the crowd and look exceptionally good. Generally the first point of notice is the head and face. An electric smile usually gets man switched on. A blank smile is inadequate though. There needs to be something behind the smile. A hint of mystery or mischief or magic helps. The eyes are the next attraction. Clarity and depth of colour are important but again they need to reveal something about her mind, emotions, feelings or maybe even reveal about what she thinks of me. Lips come next and again they should not be over sized but just full enough to suck their saccharine sweetness and feel their blossom softness for that pleasurable warm satisfied feeling much like one gets from a comfort food. The skin particularly of the cheeks needs to be naturally smooth and fresh looking. Healthy skin is an indication of what goes on inside. It reveals an attention to cleanliness and purity of soul and emotions from which one knows that the vibrations and vitality emanating are pure, sincere and wholesome. And so on to the nose. For me a prominent nose is a thing of beauty. Our society seems to consider the most attractive nose as perky, small and upwardly sloped. Most models and actresses have noses that are some variation of that, and if they don't, they'll get them thinned, decreased or straightened. This pressure to have a petite nose stems from the same place as the desire to be skinny. A sexy woman needs to stand out and an individual nose proudly proclaims her uniqueness, independence, confidence and individuality. The ears are seldom commented upon when describing a womans face. If youre one who disregards the ears you dont know what youre missing. Women know their value for they adorn them with jewellery to attract attention. Like a clitoris hiding behind a forest of pubic hair the ear displays its beauty from behind the hair style of its owner. Try sucking the ear lobe for that lip kissing sensation or licking just behind the ear to taste the sweetest of perspiration much akin to licking inside the furrow of a vagina. Finally the hair should be lustrous with a fine silky body, dermatologically clean and strong (again indications of health and vitality) that sweeps down to just above the shoulders.
As you see Ive tried to describe the balance of a sexy womans head and face. Beauty not only lies in the physical object itself (ie the eye or skin etc) but should be balanced by the invisible interpretation attached to its appearance.
As for the rest the body should be taken in paired symmetry. [Breast & Butt] The breast should be toned and tightly held against the chest with an absence of the dreaded spaniel ear droop. At the same time there should be enough elasticity for the breasts to bounce when the woman moves. The areola should be large round and rosy pink with a central firm nipple strong enough to reveal itself through the over blouse. The butt is the natural balance to the breast which it should match in terms of size and muscle tension. At the same time the butt needs to have a degree of elasticity similar to the breast to allow a gyratory movement as the woman walks. [Legs and Vulva] Sexy legs have a good overall shape to them from top to bottom. The muscles in the upper thigh area should be tight and shapely as well as the area right above the knee. A pair of sexy legs should have muscular tone and in particular the calf muscle should extend down from the knee to the ankle and be sufficiently strong to produce a leg cleavage in response to the correct movement and walk of the woman. For those who dont know what leg cleavage is Ive included a photo of a sexy ladys leg cleavage in with my photos. I dated her for some time (until she moved away) and obtained permission for its use. Next comes the vulva which unites the two thighs. If the thighs were all tone the vulva is the opposite. It is all soft silkiness with a unique beauty all its own possessing warm luscious wet folds of flesh in which lie all manner of pleasurable activity for the fingers, lips, tongue and engorged penis. [Back and Stomach] form the last of the pairings. The back must be strong not only to sustain the weight of the body; be sufficiently supple and elastic to support various sexual positions without strain and finally be healthy to generate that special cooperative, nurturing, intuitive, receptive and positive energy unique to the female. Some may think it strange that I speak of the spine as the energy/ vitality centre. Thats the way the bopdy is constructed. The seven energy centres lie along the spine and are represented by the seven chakras. When there is a free flow of energy between all the chakras the womans self confidence soars, her self esteem spirals and she emanates a radiance like the sun. A gentle massage by a knowing therapist coaxing each energy centre into optimum function (providing the spine is healthy) will have the woman brim full of vitality and sexual desire. And so on to the stomach. Many middle aged women who have endured several pregnancies end up with an unsightly tyre around their waist. (Men have them too but for a different reason!) For a man theres nothing more sexy and lovely than a smooth creamy flat cum tummy. It gives him a wild delight to pull out and spill (or even sign his name) on the parchment like stomach. So if girls you wish to drive him mad get rid of those midriff handles.
Finally Ill end with those famous lines from Roy Orbison
Pretty woman, walking down the street
Pretty woman, the kind I like to meet
I don't believe you, you're not the truth
No one could look as good as you
Pretty woman, stop a while
Pretty woman, talk a while
Pretty woman, give your smile to me
Pretty woman, yeah yeah yeah
Pretty woman, look my way
Pretty woman, say you'll stay with me
Pretty woman, look my way
Pretty woman, say you'll stay with me
PART 2
I can hear some of you say How can a person well past normal retirement age satisfy a sexy young lady? Surely hes gone past it
Well gentle reader I have news for you. Ive spent a life time entertaining glamorous women (I still do) and have learned that the Wham bang. Thank you maam approach is definitely not the best way to please her. Even on this web site I read the remarks of women who say Where are all the young bucks? as though sex was all youth, power and strength. Far from it. The art of love making starts with the gentle art of foreplay. Many ignore this fact and those that think they practice it pay it only scant attention. We live in an age of immediacy. No time to dilly dally. Get it done with. Get the tension out and move on. So the following is a brief summary of what I learnt about satisfying a woman sexually.
Foreplay starts at first sight the wink, the half smile, the glance back, the finger on the cheek sign language, a blown kiss, the movement of the hand in the pocket etc From there the verbal introduction with a surreptitious touch or two on sensitive body parts leads on to the time honoured question Your place or mine
Once at the abode proceed slowly and with sensitivity. If this is the first encounter she will be just as nervous as you about how to proceed. Engage her in interesting conversation - current events, people you both know, psychology, psychiatry, sex or any other topic which is of mutual interest. Conversation relaxes and so at some time during the exchange make sure you are seated close together. Gently lead her into a couch make out session. This takes the pressure and concern of having to undress. Let your hands and mouth wander over her clothing. If the session is good she will be writhing ecstatically. Take your time. Maybe an hour or so all the while keeping up an intelligent conversation. End the session with a deep kiss or two. The long, slow lingering kiss will moisten her underwear in no time.
The bedroom will then beckon but dont just throw her down and ravish her. Rather place her unhurriedly on the bed stomach down and massage her back including the seven chakra energy areas of the spine. \this will raise her desires skyward. End with a butt massage. Here the hands wander down to caress her inner thighs and vulva. The effect of the erotic massage is that it creates deep and delicious feelings from light and tickly touches feelings as you glide and graze your hands and fingers over her. These tickly feelings keep the brain and skin active and awake, while relaxing and arousing her at the same time. The tease will drive her wild, and before you know it, she'll have flipped over on to her back and be begging you to put it in her. You know better however and make out that youre about to oblige by stretching out along beside her but instead you turn your attention to kissing her on the neck and behind the ear. Be sensuous and take your time. Use a sexy combination of soft and firm kisses, and keep the pace on the slower side. Work your way gradually down to her breasts. Women love to held firmly but not roughly. Handle the breasts with care and respect. There are lots to do sucking, lip pinching, tonguing, caressing and breast masturbating (where the penis is rubbed in the cleavage). The hands are also an important element but it may be advisable to get her into the doggy position first with the breasts hanging down before massaging and palpitating them. Spend 15 to 20 mins playing with the breasts. Women tell me that men rarely pay much attention to them. What a mistake. So on to the final act. She is already in the rear entry position following breast handing and penetration can be achieved without anxiety. On many occasions the lady doesnt know that shes been entered until she feels the uterus widening. At this stage she will usually shake, tremble, moan and groan with ecstatic delight. Be prepared to support her. She may feel weak and find herself unable to remain in position. I generally lean forward and support her by cupping the breasts. This act heightens my own enjoyment (I love handing breasts) as well as providing the woman with necessary support. Finally I try to reserve some cum for the final extraction when I release it down her inner thigh. The woman believes that her uterus is overflowing with cum and judders and throbs at increasing frequency.
So there you have it Just a brief summary. The main point is that strength and power is unnecessary. Women leave me in the morning saying that theyd never had such a deep experience and that theyre still tingling.