Hi there.
A bit of information about me.... These are all words used by men that I have met (I'm not that vain that I would come up with them myself lol, am not that self inflated!!)
In a nutshell... Intelligent, classy, adorable, gorgeous, loveable, sexy, friendly, open, honest, upfront, flirtatious, down to earth, funny, confident, naughty, alluring, great kisser, have beautiful eyes and a lovely smile, gorgeous long dark hair. Yes, there are other compliments pertaining to certain parts of my body but you will have to discover those for yourself. Am sorry to say I have to add CHOOSEY to the list.
I've been around long enough to work out what it is I AM looking for. Please read carefully and if you tick all of the boxes please send me a message.
Please contact me IF YOU....
- Are in the 40-50 age bracket, sorry, no I don't want a younger guy! Please don't fib about your age. Photos don't lie, nothing to be gained in my opinion.
- Are prepared to email me a face pic very early in our conversation. I've spent too much time in the past chatting for hours then when I receive a face pic, find that I don't feel an attraction.
- Are a NON SMOKER!
- Have photos on your profile please make it a body shot of your torso or a nicely dressed one in your best outfit! Be classy!! Don't bother if you have a penis photo as your main profile pic- you might feel really naughty taking them but trust me, they are not what nice girls like me want to see! As for a grey cutout as your profile pic, remember ladies are spoilt for choice, so why not increase your chances of a reply? Yes I understand the need for discretion sometimes but can you really be identified by your chest for instance?
- Have a well written profile with lots of information about you. If you make spelling or grammatical mistakes in your profile or use text language, chances are you won't get my attention.
- Are here for genuine reasons, not to waste my time.
- Are prepared to chat. I love to chat, from there if I feel a connection or some chemistry I will definitely arrange to meet you. Take some time to get inside my head and see what happens!
- Are not just here to talk dirty to me. Save it for when we know each other, I find it a total turn off from strangers!
- Respect your body just a little bit. I'm not a gym junkie so I don't expect you to be but if you are overweight, sorry, no can do.
- Are clean shaven. I'm not a fan of excessive facial hair, long hair or lots of wild woolly hair down below (for when we meet of course).
- CAN meet in the daytime that would be awesome. I have a family so their needs come first out of school hours. Occasionally I may get the opportunity to play on weekend nights too.
- Can be bothered sending an original first message to me- none of this generic would like to know more about you before we chat or would like to see more photos before we start chatting. Save the pet names for when we know each other.
- Are looking for MORE than random NSA fun- that's not me either, been there done that!
- Have lots of information in your profile I can make a judgement on whether I want to get to know you. Make it an interesting and wordy one and you will hook me.
- Can be respectful and discreet. (This does include turning up if we arrange to meet or giving me lots of notice if you can't).
- Take good care of yourself- smell yummy, dress nicely, have good teeth, are clean, drug and disease free.
- Have a good sense of humour and can see the funny side of life.
- Are a glass full kind of person, none of this half empty, half full!!
- Can carry on an intelligent conversation and appreciate one in return.
- Love to spoil a lady and make her feel special, are a great kisser as well as have other talents a lady might appreciate.
- Might be looking for a special ongoing FWB. I really AM NOT INTERESTED IN ONE OFF RANDOM SEXCAPADES. Been there done that and while it does scratch an itch it is not very fulfilling. Interactions improve the more you get to know someone.
One more thing. I am married and my husband knows I have a profile on this site. I have his permission to play, (hence why I may be available some Friday and Saturday nights). I am not cheating behind his back. We are both exploring an open relationship. In fact, I may even introduce you to him if we are all comfortable with that lol.
Hopefully that has thinned out the number of totally unsuitable messages I might receive. My time is precious as is yours so by being pretty specific I'm saving both of us from wasting it. Sorry if I offend any of you but I'm a lady who knows what I want, I have learnt from experience.
Now, if you are still reading and have ticked all of my boxes feel very free to contact me.......
If not, thanks for reading my profile and good luck in your search, I hope you find what you are looking for.
Xxx
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