Hello and thanks for popping by
I am just looking around for now...Don't really know what it is I am looking for.... or if I am even really looking for anything... perhaps a good place to start would be a drink or dinner.. and see where the mood takes us.. I need to feel a connection before anything else can happen... a friendship must blossom before benefits are given... I need to feel safe....
I am not looking for one night wham bam thank you maam encounters.. been there... done that... left feeling like an unpaid hooker... That is not me sorry...
I am not a secret... Dirty or otherwise
I am very shy... very very inexperienced.. and very unsure about all of this
The thought of encounters such as these scares me ...alot....Due to a rather unfortunate incident in my past...it can take me a while to build up the courage to meet .. so should I decide to be brave and meet.. please be gentle and understanding... I can talk the talk.. but not always good at walking the walk
I like my men to be Caucasian... white.... ( I am not racist... it is just an ideals thing)....and living in the Sydney area
MUST be cut....( I am a foreskin phobic, even under a condom... I still know it is there)
I am not a fan of tattoos.. actually, I hate them.. can handle a few small ones... but if your body is a walking art gallery.... no thanks
no strange piercings
prefer clean shaven ..not the biggest fan of facial hair....( I like a smooth body from top to bottom)..
between the ages of 39-45 only... (not after someone outside the age bracket... nor someone that could pass as my son.. or someone old enuff to be my father) ...
needs to be very patient and understanding...
you really have to be single/divorced/widowed.. I am not comfortable being the substitute for your marriage is lacking... or one of your harem of bed buddies.. even if you are unhappy with what you committed to. I have been the "other woman" , "the secret" all my life... it is time now to be "the one and only" ( I know that is a big ask on this site)
No Photo... No Profile info... No chat/meet .......Please have a photo of your face online... as enticing as the dick pics are.. they shouldn't be the way I recognize you if/when we meet
Me..
I am an answer giver not a question asker... a follower not a leader...
I describe myself with an 'F'... fair complexion....an extreme fatty.. in my forties and fugly as sin
I am real Chubby. so if you dont like a few extra handles to hold onto and the sound of slapping skin.. then move along...
I am very very self conscious
My old body doesn't move the way it used to.. so unfortunately every position in the Karma Sutra will not be possible... nor is a quicky in the back seat of the car.. I just dont bend that way anymore
I am a true blonde from head to toe. ( with a tinge of the ginge)
I am EXTREMELY shy..
I can run hot and cold
To my detriment, I am very very choosy... why settle for the beat up old car when you could have the prestige model if you are willing to be patient
Trying to catch up with me is generally about as easy as catching a fly with a pair of broken toothpicks... it can be done.... but it takes a whole lot of patience
I can generally be found at a baseball field somewhere in Sydney.... very involved in Sydney Baseball.. it kind of all consumes my life...
My current living arrangements do not allow me to go for late night spontaneous rendezvous or have 'visitors' ...If/when we do meet I would need to come to you.. or we would need to find a mutually convenient place to meet ...
I did have some extra photos on here but have had to remove them for personal reasons. I am more than happy to share once we get to know each other better
I am sure there is more I should add.. but will do so at another time...
Fell free to ask if u wish to know more