I am not looking for a one night stand. I seek something long term and regular.
I am also looking for more then just sex. I need to have an emotional connection...I want a lover in the true sense. Someone to share my thoughts and life with.I don't want complete anonymity, but discretion is paramount.
I am married with children so am not looking to leave my life, but am looking to enhance.
I am not looking to meet immediately. I want to get to know you first. I am also looking for something long term. Trust me when I say, I am good enough in bed that you will want to keep coming back.
Exclusiveness is essential-apart from our current partners of course.
I want Someone intense, who can lead on occasions. I want you to hold my hands up against a wall while you f**k me, then allow me to tie you up and have my way with you the next time. Sexually confident, without being arrogant. I'm not interested in being a notch on your belt. A man driven by lust and a high sex drive. You must like talking dirty and hearing it in return. I want to hear tell me how you are going to make me cum. And someone who likes to swap photos and fantasies.
I am a grown up with children. I don't have time to party. I enjoy music and good food, and curling up with a book. I like banter and intellectual conversation. Please do not send me winks. I feel that if you are planning to bed me, you need to not be lazy and put more effort into it. I don't need an essay, just a few sentences so I have something to go by.