"It wasn't until I started reading and found books they wouldn't let us read in school that I discovered you could be insane and happy and have a good life without being like everybody else.
John Waters American film director, screenwriter, author, actor, stand-up comedian, journalist, visual artist, art collector
I love contrasts, textures, light and shadows, twists and turns, curves and contours, complexity and simplicity, confidence and humility, high energy bursts and quiet retreats. Specializing in surprises, long, languid lunches, picnics in obscure locations, I appreciate and devour the unusual, acts of courage, the extra in the ordinary, the sizzle and the slow burn, saturated by music, to engage with people around me - sometimes with just eyes, or words, stories and random acts of kindness. I love to travel and equally relish returning home to my peaceful haven.
I like my food and my conversation, as I like my man vibrant, lively, sensational and full of depth, integrity and flavour- where actions speak much louder than words.It's the "We, rather than the Me/ Think Global, Act Local" culture that I value, coasting gloriously in the slow lane. I'm no slave to anything or anyone but devoted to caring for my 3 furry felines. And secretly, who did I want to be? You'll have to play 'Two Hot Options' to find out; preferably in front of a roaring fire with ample supplies of mulled wine, chai, chili and salted caramel dark chocolate, assorted exotica, fruits and cheeses, creme fraiche and tapas at hand. ;) laid back letting go, dancin' in the dark, safely in the arms of Dexter Gordon ... and with access to the clear, open skies, surrounded by natures songs.. The life force in your eyes are the giveaway - for me anyway and the silent eye conversations, the spine tingling frisson. Curios? I am. I look forward to meeting you.
If you've read the above and sense an affinity, if you seek that 'peaceful, easy feeling' , whilst enjoying the stimulation and you know and want to share what you stand for, you may wish to introduce yourself. Personalized, bold, cheeky/ funny/creative sincere messages are THE way to go! And if you don't want to connect, then I respectfully wish you the peace and serenity that your restless heart seeks.
I sincerely prefer to limit my time on the internet and to chat forums, including emailing and so forth), so much more comfortable cara a cara (face to face). I'm evolved enough to recognize that I'm highly allergic to "meaningful" one night stands, violence, cruelty, dishonesty, arrogance, bigotry and rudeness - come to think of it, I always was. Proud atheists = hail fellow, well met.
Note: This is a sampler, not a CV. If you want more, keep your scuba gear on ;) If I've checked out your profile and failed to send you a message and you think that this is a gross oversight and an insult to your charm and charisma, take action IMMEDIATELY. If Ive sent you a garbled message, apologies in advance. I blame an overdose of Tom Waits, Robin Williams and Cognac de Mel. Sometimes, the digital delirium sets in. Thanks for your patience. Time for a refreshment!
I pride myself on the fact that my phone is not welded to my hand. I'm a non smoker and an atheist and prefer to find someone that's within approx 50 km of my home, I appreciate it if you have taken the time to display a photo of yourself and a few lines about you, thanks.