I'm married but play with my husband's full knowledge. If you have a partner yourself, that person must know and be OK with your activities if we're going to spend time together.
Like you all, I work and have other commitments so my time to play is limited although when I do play, taking my time for full enjoyment is what I'm looking for.
I don't play at home so if that's an issue please don't contact me. I do have filters in place so please don't be offended if you're outside them.. They include age (my preferred range is 26-40), distance from me and whether you smoke (which affects my allergies).
I like to build sexual tension talking first, then meet to see if the chemistry is there. Yes, that means talking to me. My preference is to finding regular fuck buddies rather than one offs.