I like to know a person first so a bit of a chat initally would be great (so don't send your number and expect to be having sex within the hour lol). I'm also cautious about safety and need there to be some attraction/spark so like to meet for a drink in public first. Yes I can be picky, like most of us can be (maybe women more than men lol). I like men who are taller than me, so if you are shorter than about 5'10" sorry but than will kill my libido so beat not to waste our time. I was on here a while ago for a short period and did meet at home and all was ok with the exception of the one guy I didn't want to sleep with. Luckily he was a gentleman and accepted that but it made me realise that I needed to be more cautious as it could have ended quite differently (yes I watch the news sometimes lol). If you can't accept that then please don't contact me.
I am looking for one guy on an ongoing basis rather than many and I'm not into threesomes or orgies - I like to focus my attention on just the one! If you are a guy who understands how to turn a woman on through her brain I'd love to hear from you!
If you are married or in a relationship, I'm not interested in hearing from you or about how unhappy you are thanks, please move along! Also I'm only interested in guys between 35 and 52 years old, I have no desire to mother or teach and have non daddy issues lol