I'm a 45 year old single male experimenting with bondage but not into inflicting pain.
I love the idea of restraining a woman, having complete control over her body, earning her trust to do so and showing the respect to deserve it. Most misunderstand the Dom/Sub relationship, it can be many things but is always based on mutual trust and respect. To earn the trust of a woman for her to give you control over her body, allow you to push her past normal limits of pleasure and arousal is what excites me
What doesn't interest me?
Pain in any form unless mutually agreed upon, disrespect, taking advantage of people, judgement or anything that destroys trust and respect
What do I like to do in the bedroom?
Ropes, Cuffs \u0026 restraints
I like to restrain and immobilize, watching a woman strain against bindings, convulsing in pleasure is one of the most erotic things I know of. I'm learning Shibari rope tying, its and art form as well as a means of restraint and a gradual learning process.
Floggers, Paddles \u0026 Ticklers
I'm not into pain or hurting anyone, these objects are used to shock, surprise and distract, not cause injury or pain. Yes there are Doms that get off on inflicting pain, but it's not something that excites me.
Toys
Who doesn't like to play with toys, I have a wide variety of items to play with for the more sensitive parts of your body and many different ideas of how to use them to drive a woman crazy.
Do I still enjoy Straight sex?
Yes, the scent, touch and sound of a woman and her arousal is always pleasurable, exciting and something I love.