I am looking for someone who is totally honest, has their own life passions feels free to follow them out. I am travelled (Iwas born in N.Z. but brought up in Oxford, England where we had amazing visitors. When Professor Jack Mac. - "The Golden Haired Boy of Oxford University - Ryle's Boy - no less" took off, mother took us back to N.Z. Horrorshow but I am fiercely independent, monogamous, loyal and Kantian veracious. My previous partner, who died of Heart Disease in 2009 I have fully grieved, alone, . His goodness love remain with me to share with you. I am fair. I have been involved in Growth Work (therapy) for nearly 25 years and have worked my butt off to enhance my strengths; honesty, self honesty, super strength and independence, to dealing with my.....less endearing faults, inability to say the word no (not in sexual matters) - gone, mendacity - allowing those pesky little erroneous "white" lies - gone, they are still deceitful bits of information. One can be honest without being harmatic or hurtful - and various other kinks. I work on a supra (sub) conscious level now.