It is so hard to express yourself, in text, so i hope i dont sound like a bitch, i can be yes, but once someone meets me, they realise what a nice person i am. If you are wanting a fwb, and a friendship too, then message me. If you do not have a pic of your face, do not expect a reply back, sorry. I do not want a one night, stand, so, i am chatting to a few guys that sound nice, so if you are truly interested in having great sex on a regular basis with no strings, I can assure you i can provide that, but if we meet, please dont expect sex straight away, I want to know the guy is really into me, and we get along then i will know if they are truly interested in me, or just a quickie, I have met 2 guys and not had sex, now they seem to not want to talk as much, mm, that tells me a lot if someone wants a quick fuck and not see that person again, then say so, plenty of women are out there that have no problem with that lol. but i know what i want, a friendship, with benefits, i dont want to have to go through all the nerve wracking meeting someone new every week, once you get to know a person, the sex slowly gets better, but with a one night stand, the girl never has a orgasm, only the guy, does. I am extremely honest, and my flaws are i am a smoker, i have false teeth, and not a perfect 10 in my body, i have curves. but i am great in bed lmao. This is why i am being so up front in my profile, then maybe i will get messages from the genuine guys, I do not want multiple partners, i am happily married, as in friendship wise with hubby, and do not want to change that or hurt my hubby, he would love to have sex with me but he cant because of health issues yes i Love sex, but i want a friendship too. I am a real person, genuine, and i dont lie to get what i want. I am 55 and do prefer younger than myself, I do not like beards. surely there are some genuine guys out there, that want similar, i maybe 55 but i am a very very young at heart 55 year old. Trust me I am not a clingy person. But when you meet someone you click with. It's. Nice to get a message every few days. Keeps the spark going and it's called good manners especially when you know they have read your message, I may come across as a bitch but i am not, i am a very happy positive person and a big kid at heart. and know how to have fun, I will make you laugh thats for sure,, definitly not a leech lol, so wont be hanging on your leg every day, and i would never interfere in other peoples lives, but if you dont have a connection, then sex isnt great either but i am a good friend also, well thats enough blowing my own trumpet hehe i just dont want to be played. I have a 11 year old daughter that i care for full time, so it can be hard to get away, but for the right person, you can be damm sure i would make time , but you need to live near me